Did you know people who are naturally happy are often making the most income? Did you know that these people are usually the healthiest people and live the longest? They also stay married longer than the average person. I often wondered why some people are naturally happier than others? I discovered in my research that most people that are happy are tapping into the universal law of attraction that directs us to put positive energy into the world to get positivity back.
What energy are you putting out into the world? Being negative is often easier than being in a positive space. In a negative state of mind, one may actually expect for circumstances not to go their way and if it does appear to be heading in a positive direction they may prophesize that it is only a temporary situation. Some may even wait for the proverbial “shoe” to drop.
In this frame of mind, one places themselves in a state of victimization, meaning that they see themselves as having no choice in their life circumstances; therefore, they are always the “victim” and do not need to place the blame on themselves – it is always someone or something else’s fault. In this negative space, one does not have control of their life … everyone and everything else does.
However, when one chooses to be happy (yes, happiness is a choice), they have control. That reckless driver does not have the power to make them late for work, because they prepared and left home early to avoid traffic issues. Or that co-worker that keeps leaving their station dirty doesn't have an impact on them. Little things remain little things and no longer have the power to upset them. Instead of expecting negative things to happen, they are expecting positivity and this energy is sent out into the universe and given back to them. We all know that bad things do happen to happy people, but instead of begrudging the bad, the person who chooses happy will look for the lesson in the experience.
I argue if one maintains their optimism and happiness when something does not go the way they desired than something else positive will be sure to manifest in their life. It is important to remember when going through difficult times that often the universe sends us people and situations in our lives to learn lessons from in order to improve ourselves. These lessons are not always pleasant and may test our fortitude, but they are needed so we can become better human beings.
Many of my clients ask me, “How can I be happy when my life is falling apart around me?” I say, “Change your mind set to change your world!” The law of attraction will only give back to you what you are sending out. You are in control and your mind set dictates what will manifest in your world. So, if you choose to be happy and optimistic about your life and see the lessons that are before you than you will get that positive energy back in the form of helpful people are circumstances that will assist you in turning your life around.
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